I'm blogging what I can't post on my Face Book page.
People have distorted the truth so much that the only thing you recognize is the human element and emotions. Well that's a start.
Stories have quickly evolved into a kaleidoscope of illogical fallacies, intentional misunderstandings, situations blown out of proportions to either save face or act out of malicious intent.
You have to be flattered that so many people care about what you think of them that they faked their entire existence, heart and soul. Just to impress you!
How good can it get?
EVERYONE IN LA IS AN ACTOR! Lucky you!
That home ownership is really a predatory loan in an area where real estate ownership is unaffordable.
Could they really afford to finance a $25,000 wedding in Malibu on a salary of a casting extra/flight attendant?
The truth- Angelinos with legit connections work THREE restaurant jobs to afford the rent! Some families put their mortgaged house in their adult children's name to avoid tax liabilities and liens. People are really doing these things.
As irritating as it is for people to put others down in order to feel better about themselves- it can be harmless.
My high school best friend did that with the illusion of wealth so her hubby bully the McDojo can create a Karate School ponzi scheme.
However, the most malicious are not the ones who create harmful lies. But those who choose to believe the harmful lies. Like my high school best friend's husband when an ex-friend lied by telling them that I said that they were "bad parents". In her words. I actually told her that my high school best friend is a people pleaser who liked to please her young boys. The ex-friend told high school best friend, then the high school best friend's husband went belligerent on me and berated me severely when I tried to get in contact with her.
Now over a decade later, the high school best friend and her husband are being lied about in a nasty case of vicious slander and well, um... I defended them against the slander.
Granted the slander was written by her sister in law who and her husband ( best friend's youngest brother- who had 2 overdoses in the last year) lost custody of their 3 children to my high school best friend and her husband. Because they won't stop doing drugs.
She just didn't want my high school best friend and her husband to have custody of their children.
This isn't going to be about me because 3 young children need a home as their father is in a lot of danger from overdosing and dying. I pray for all of them.
In the meantime, not everything the drug addicted sister in law is entirely false. She did misquote a few facts and blew a few things out of proportion.
My best friend from high school- she and her family helped me and my family out in ways you would never imagine. Her dad was on the paramedic team that saved my mom's life when she had angina. They kept me and helped me get back on my feet when my own dysfunctional and misguided abusive family threw me out on my 19th birthday, which landed on a snowy Easter in Ohio. Because I had a boyfriend? I got on my feet and put myself back in school until college graduation. Best friend defended me against nasty rumors founded on racism.
Yes.
Racism.
People spread the same nasty gossip about me and pretend that they're the most woke racially tolerant person in the world.
Don't speak about things which you know nothing about.
To assume is to make an ASS out of U and ME.
The best friend's family would be crushed if the children's father- their youngest son were to pass on. Heart broken. They want to give him the world and every opportunity to overcome this and have a great life! The problem is that this son has to choose for himself. It's out of his control and God has to handle the rest.
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